Self-achievement or loveWe always choose the former when unattached. That's why i fear the latter. When both the couple choose themselves over the other, a relationship tragedy begins. Women are inclined to sacrifice themselves for "genuine love" and indeed almost all are sacrificed. pathetic ironic.
Everyone needs the bonus, but some gave it up for another companion's job while others are smart enough to believe it's wise to keep it cause the job position is useless and fewer companions are more efficient.